My brother In-Law (and friend) has a brain tumor and is currently in hospice. With my sister’s permission I’d like to share an except from her CaringBridge journal. I found it very uplifting in the face of this very difficult time, and thought it may provide inspiration for others.

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We are simply overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and support from all over the globe. Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing your warm wishes, prayers, and great memories. I’ve been asked by many what more you can do to help. Your messages have done so much to brighten Don’s days - they are more valuable than anything else you could do or send. That said, we did come up with a few more ways you can help:

- Hug your wife/husband/significant other and tell them you love them. Do it often. You never want to think you missed an opportunity if it becomes too late.

- Hug your kids and tell them you love them. Even if they say “ewww”. They will remember it always.

- Cherish your friends. Stay in touch as much as possible. Friendships are priceless and have no expiration date. Even if many years have passed, they will be there when you need them.

- Appreciate every day. You truly never know when things will change.

- Don’t put off those great fun things you’ve been planning to do. If you can take that vacation now - do it! And take lots of pictures so you can look at them later and remember what a great time you had.

- Pet the dog. There’s just something about dogs that make you happy.

Don and I celebrated our 25th wedding anniversary on July 24 and used the opportunity to reflect on how lucky we really have been - wonderful marriage, incredible children, unbelievable friends and family, fun jobs and funny dogs. We count all of you as part of our good fortune. Write soon!

Susan